Nor do the females of our closest primate cousins offer…
““Nor do the females of our closest primate cousins offer much reason to believe the human female should be sexually reluctant due to purely biological concerns. Instead, primatologist Meredith Small has noted that female primates are highly attracted to novelty in mating. Unfamiliar males appear to attract females more than known males with any other characteristic a male might offer (high status, large size, coloration, frequent grooming, hairy chest, gold chains, pinky ring, whatever). Small writes, "The only consistent interest seen among the general primate population is an interest in novelty and variety...In fact," she reports, "the search for the unfamiliar is documented as a female preference more often than is any other characteristic our human eyes can perceive.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Female primates, including humans, are biologically drawn to novelty in mates, not just traditional traits.
In simple terms: Women often prefer new partners over familiar ones.
Embrace variety in relationships.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- dating
- relationship counseling
- sexual health
- social research
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What drives your partner choices?
- How does novelty affect long‑term bonds?
Novelty isn’t the only factor in attraction.