We think of communication as words. But a screaming child…
““We think of communication as words. But a screaming child is trying to say something. A tantrum carries a message. Hitting is communication. Sleep patterns carry a message. Even the sulky belligerence of a teen is an attempt to convey a message. Everything the child does says something to the person who is willing to take the time to listen carefully.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Children express needs and emotions through behavior, not just words; listening reveals hidden messages.
In simple terms: Kids communicate via actions, not just speech.
Observe behavior to understand underlying needs.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- parent‑child conflicts
- school settings
- therapy sessions
- family meetings
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you differentiate a need from a habit?
- What strategies help you listen without judgment?
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