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strange that I should choose you for the confidante of all…

“strange that I should choose you for the confidante of all this, young lady; passing strange that you should listen to me quietly, as if it were the most usual thing in the world for a man like me to tell stories of his opera - mistress to a quaint, inexperienced girl like you!” quote by Charlotte Brontë
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““strange that I should choose you for the confidante of all this, young lady; passing strange that you should listen to me quietly, as if it were the most usual thing in the world for a man like me to tell stories of his opera - mistress to a quaint, inexperienced girl like you!””

Charlotte Brontë

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A man finds it odd that a young woman would listen to his dramatic stories, as if such intimacy were ordinary.

In simple terms: He is surprised a girl would hear his opera‑like tales.

Key Takeaway

Respect the listener’s perspective and avoid presumptions.

Themes

gender dynamics storytelling social norms

Mood

thoughtful analytical

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • classroom discussion
  • creative writing
  • interpersonal dialogue

Key Concepts

literature communication

Questions to Reflect On

  • Why might someone feel uncomfortable sharing personal stories?
  • How can you gauge appropriate intimacy?
A Different Perspective

Assuming familiarity can alienate the audience.

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