But you are not under a system similar to that by which…
“But you are not under a system similar to that by which the Jews were obliged to pay tithes to the priests. If there were any such rule laid down in the Gospel, it would destroy the beauty of spontaneous giving and take away all the bloom from the fruit of your liberality! There is no law to tell me what I should give my father on his birthday. There is no rule laid down in any law book to decide what present a husband should give to his wife, nor what token of affection we should bestow upon others whom we love. No, the gift must be a free one, or it has lost all its sweetness.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Giving should be voluntary and heartfelt, not bound by legalistic rules, to preserve its true joy.
In simple terms: Giving must be free to stay sweet.
Give freely, without coercion.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- birthday gifts
- marital presents
- charitable donations
- friendship tokens
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What motivates your giving?
- Can you give without expecting anything in return?
Rigid rules can make gifts feel transactional, losing their emotional value.