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When ladies as young, and good, and beautiful as you are,"…

“When ladies as young, and good, and beautiful as you are," replied the girl steadily, "give away your hearts, love will carry you all lengths--even such as you, who have home, friends, other admireres, everything to fill them. When such as I, who have no certain roof but the coffin-lid, and no…” quote by Charles Dickens
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““When ladies as young, and good, and beautiful as you are," replied the girl steadily, "give away your hearts, love will carry you all lengths--even such as you, who have home, friends, other admireres, everything to fill them. When such as I, who have no certain roof but the coffin-lid, and no friend in sickness or death but the hospital nurse, set our rotten hearts on any man, and let him fill the place that has been a blank through all our wretched lives, who can hope to cure us? Pity us, lady--pity us for having only one feeling of the woman left, and for having that turned, by a heavy judgment, from a comfort and a pride, into a new means of violence and suffering.””

Charles Dickens

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A woman, isolated and judged, seeks love but fears it brings pain and loss.

In simple terms: A lonely woman worries love will hurt her.

Key Takeaway

Seek genuine connection, not fear.

Themes

love isolation judgment

Mood

melancholic thoughtful

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • mental health support
  • literary analysis

Key Concepts

gender roles emotional vulnerability social stigma

Questions to Reflect On

  • Do modern readers see similar fears?
  • How does society shape love expectations?
A Different Perspective

The passage reflects a specific 19th‑century perspective on gender.

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