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A yet women -good women- frightened me because they…

“A yet women -good women- frightened me because they eventually wanted your soul, and what was left of mine, I wanted to keep. Basically I craved prostitutes, base women, because they were deadly and hard and made no personal demands. Nothing was lost when they left. Yet at the same time I yearned…” quote by Charles Bukowski
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“A yet women -good women- frightened me because they eventually wanted your soul, and what was left of mine, I wanted to keep. Basically I craved prostitutes, base women, because they were deadly and hard and made no personal demands. Nothing was lost when they left. Yet at the same time I yearned for a gentle, good woman, despite the overwhelming price.”

Charles Bukowski

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

He is drawn to dangerous, unattached women who demand nothing, while also longing for a caring partner, revealing a conflict between desire for freedom and need for intimacy.

In simple terms: He wants both wild and gentle women, but they conflict.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and balance your needs for independence and connection.

Themes

desire conflict relationships masculinity

Mood

conflicted longing reflective

Type

philosophical personal

When to use this quote

  • seeking casual partners
  • searching for lasting love
  • navigating fear of commitment
  • exploring personal values

Key Concepts

attachment theory self‑sabotage emotional dichotomy

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does each type of woman represent to you?
  • How can you find fulfillment without compromising self‑respect?
A Different Perspective

His view idealizes harmful stereotypes and may ignore healthy relationship dynamics.

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