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But the trouble is, I do want to be surprised. I want to…

“But the trouble is, I do want to be surprised. I want to choose. I broke the heart of my fate so that I could choose. I never chose; I only saw a little girl who looked like me standing on a gear at the end of the world and laughing, and that's not choosing, not really. Wouldn't you rather I chose…” quote by Catherynne M. Valente
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““But the trouble is, I do want to be surprised. I want to choose. I broke the heart of my fate so that I could choose. I never chose; I only saw a little girl who looked like me standing on a gear at the end of the world and laughing, and that's not choosing, not really. Wouldn't you rather I chose you? Wouldn't you rather I picked our future out of all the others anyone could have?””

Catherynne M. Valente

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker longs for agency, feeling trapped by destiny yet yearning for surprise and choice.

In simple terms: Wanting control while craving unexpected outcomes.

Key Takeaway

Embrace uncertainty and make deliberate choices.

Themes

freedom destiny choice surprise

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • career decisions
  • relationships
  • creative projects
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

existentialism self‑determination fate

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does “choosing” truly mean to you?
  • How can you create surprise within constraints?
A Different Perspective

Choice can be illusory when external forces dominate.

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