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You speak of sacrifice, but it is not my sacrifice I…

“You speak of sacrifice, but it is not my sacrifice I offer. It is yours I ask of you," he went on. "I can offer you my life, but it is a short life; I can offer you my heart, though I have no idea how many more beats it shall sustain. But I love you enough to hope that you wil not care that I am…” quote by Cassandra Clare
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““You speak of sacrifice, but it is not my sacrifice I offer. It is yours I ask of you," he went on. "I can offer you my life, but it is a short life; I can offer you my heart, though I have no idea how many more beats it shall sustain. But I love you enough to hope that you wil not care that I am being selfish in trying to make the rest of my life - whatever length - happy, by spending it with you. I want to be married to you, Tessa. I want it more than I have ever wanted anything else in my life." He looked up at her through the veil of silvery hair that fell over his eyes. "That is," he said shyly, "if you love me, too.””

Cassandra Clare

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A lover offers his life and heart, acknowledging imperfection, and asks for reciprocal love and marriage.

In simple terms: He offers his imperfect love and asks for marriage.

Key Takeaway

Offer love honestly and ask for shared commitment.

Themes

love commitment vulnerability selflessness marriage

Mood

hopeful romantic intense

Type

romantic confessional literary

When to use this quote

  • proposal
  • relationship building
  • confession of feelings

Key Concepts

reciprocity intimacy self-sacrifice imperfection

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does true sacrifice mean in love?
  • How do you balance selflessness with self-care?
A Different Perspective

Love may be limited by personal flaws and fear of selfishness.

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