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Will is… difficult,” Jem said. “But family is difficult…

“Will is… difficult,” Jem said. “But family is difficult. If I didn’t think the Institute was the best place for you, Tessa, I wouldn’t say it was. And one can build one’s own family. I know you feel inhuman, and as if you were set apart, away from life and love, but…” His voice cracked a little…” quote by Cassandra Clare
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““Will is… difficult,” Jem said. “But family is difficult. If I didn’t think the Institute was the best place for you, Tessa, I wouldn’t say it was. And one can build one’s own family. I know you feel inhuman, and as if you were set apart, away from life and love, but…” His voice cracked a little, the first time Tessa had heard him sound unsure. He cleared his throat. “I promise you, the right man won’t care.””

Cassandra Clare

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This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Family is hard, but one can create chosen families; the right partner will accept you as you are.

In simple terms: Choose your own family and accept love.

Key Takeaway

Seek supportive relationships.

Themes

family choice acceptance love

Mood

empathetic encouraging

Type

advice inspirational

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • friendships
  • support groups

Key Concepts

chosen family self-acceptance

Questions to Reflect On

  • What qualities define a chosen family?
  • How do you support someone feeling isolated?
A Different Perspective

Chosen families may face external judgment.

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