Our message to parents is to focus on the process the…
“Our message to parents is to focus on the process the child engages in, such as trying hard or focusing on the task - what specific things they're doing rather than, 'You're so smart. You're so good at this.' Although it's never too late to change, what you do early matters.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Emphasize effort and strategies over innate ability to foster growth and resilience in children.
In simple terms: Praise effort, not talent.
Focus on process, not labels.
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When to use this quote
- classroom feedback
- sports coaching
- homework routines
- team projects
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you describe a child's specific actions?
- What language reinforces effort?
Children may still internalize fixed‑mindset messages despite praise.