We experience specific traumas that affect us profoundly…
““We experience specific traumas that affect us profoundly. And we are living amidst institutional standards, family systems and normative practices that perpetuate sexual violence, segregation and domination. A host of macro and micro-aggressions punish sexual identities and experiences outside a norm that almost no one fits inside. Neglect of our sexuality is also vigorously enforced. Most children are born into a world that disregards their sexuality and admonishes or exploits its expression. Adults typically have their sexual experiences rationed to occasional and unsatisfying exchanges. It is well past time we recognize that this neglect in itself is traumatizing. By working and playing to transform our personal neurobiology, we also look to understand and transform the social context.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Neglect of sexuality and systemic oppression cause deep trauma; transforming personal and social contexts can heal.
In simple terms: Sexual neglect and oppression cause trauma; healing needs change.
Address both personal and systemic issues.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- policy reform
- personal healing
- community support
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How does society shape sexual norms?
- What personal steps aid healing?
Change is slow and resistance is common.