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Drehy,” Kaladin said, “you are literally courting a man.”…

“Drehy,” Kaladin said, “you are literally courting a man.” “So?” Drehy said. “Yeah, what are you saying, Kal?” Skar snapped. “Nothing! I just thought Drehy might empathize….” “That’s hardly fair,” Drehy said. “Yeah,” Lopen added. “Drehy likes other guys. That’s like … he wants to be even less…” quote by Brandon Sanderson
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““Drehy,” Kaladin said, “you are literally courting a man.” “So?” Drehy said. “Yeah, what are you saying, Kal?” Skar snapped. “Nothing! I just thought Drehy might empathize….” “That’s hardly fair,” Drehy said. “Yeah,” Lopen added. “Drehy likes other guys. That’s like … he wants to be even less around women than the rest of us. It’s the opposite of feminine. He is you could say extra manly.””

Brandon Sanderson

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A character confronts another about hidden sexual orientation, highlighting discomfort with non‑conforming gender expectations.

In simple terms: Questioning gender norms and hidden sexuality.

Key Takeaway

Respect identity beyond stereotypes.

Themes

gender identity stereotypes sexuality

Mood

conflicted thoughtful

Type

dialogue social

When to use this quote

  • friendship
  • dating
  • workplace
  • school

Key Concepts

masculinity social pressure communication

Questions to Reflect On

  • What assumptions are made about gender?
  • How can we support diverse identities?
A Different Perspective

May reinforce binary gender assumptions.

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