Being proposed to all is very nice and all that sort of…
“Being proposed to all is very nice and all that sort of thing, but it isn’t at all a happy thing when you have to see a poor fellow, whom you know loves you honestly, going away and looking all broken-hearted, and to know that, no matter what he may say at the moment, you are passing quite out if his life”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Choosing a socially advantageous marriage can cause deep sorrow for a sincere lover left behind.
In simple terms: Choosing a good match may hurt a true lover.
Key Takeaway
Consider the emotional cost of convenience.
Themes
love
society
marriage
betrayal
sacrifice
Mood
sad
reflective
Type
moral
philosophical
When to use this quote
- arranged marriage
- family expectations
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
emotional conflict
social pressure
honor
Questions to Reflect On
- Is it worth sacrificing true love for status?
- How can one balance duty and affection?
A Different Perspective
The quote assumes the decision is purely pragmatic, ignoring personal agency.