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“The child will grow up and find out things for herself. She will know that I lied. She will be disappointed." "That is what is called learning the truth. It is a good thing to learn the truth one's self. To first believe with all your heart, and then not to believe, is good too. It fattens the…” quote by Betty Smith
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““The child will grow up and find out things for herself. She will know that I lied. She will be disappointed." "That is what is called learning the truth. It is a good thing to learn the truth one's self. To first believe with all your heart, and then not to believe, is good too. It fattens the emotions and makes them to stretch. When as a woman life and people disappoint her, she will have had practice in disappointment and it will not come so hard. In teaching your child, do not forget that suffering is good too. It makes a person rich in character.””

Betty Smith

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Learning truth through disappointment builds character; suffering can deepen emotional resilience and understanding.

In simple terms: Truth learned through disappointment builds character.

Key Takeaway

Embrace disappointment as character‑building.

Themes

growth truth resilience

Mood

reflective serious

Type

philosophical educational

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • education
  • personal adversity

Key Concepts

philosophy psychology character development

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can disappointment be constructive?
  • When should suffering be avoided?
A Different Perspective

Suffering is not always beneficial and can cause lasting harm.

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