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“This laudable quality is commonly known by the name of Manners and Good-breeding, and consists in a Fashionable Habit, acquir'd by Precept and Example, of flattering the Pride and Selfishness of others, and concealing our own with Judgment and Dexterity.” quote by Bernard de Mandeville
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“This laudable quality is commonly known by the name of Manners and Good-breeding, and consists in a Fashionable Habit, acquir'd by Precept and Example, of flattering the Pride and Selfishness of others, and concealing our own with Judgment and Dexterity.”

Bernard de Mandeville

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Manners involve flattering others' pride while modestly hiding our own, a social habit learned by example.

In simple terms: Politeness hides our pride.

Key Takeaway

Use humility and flattery wisely.

Themes

social etiquette humility flattery

Mood

reflective analytical

Type

philosophical social

When to use this quote

  • diplomacy
  • networking
  • conflict management
  • leadership

Key Concepts

social psychology norms interpersonal dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • When is it appropriate to flatter?
  • How can you show humility without self‑deprecation?
A Different Perspective

Flattery can be perceived as insincere.

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