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When I first arrived (in New York), it seemed to me the…

“When I first arrived (in New York), it seemed to me the most terrifying city in the world... all those big buildings. I remember walking on Broadway, looking up at this huge, mountainous place-and being so lonely. But things started to clear up when I met a few people on the street whom I'd met…” quote by Benny Goodman
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“When I first arrived (in New York), it seemed to me the most terrifying city in the world... all those big buildings. I remember walking on Broadway, looking up at this huge, mountainous place-and being so lonely. But things started to clear up when I met a few people on the street whom I'd met before-all of a sudden there got to be a certain familiarity about the place, and the terror kind of evaporated. There was a lot of playing going on, and the New Yorkers, of course, were a completely different crowd from what I'd known.”

Benny Goodman

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Familiarity and human connection transform alienating environments into comfortable places.

In simple terms: People make strangers feel like friends.

Key Takeaway

Seek community in new settings.

Themes

adaptation community loneliness

Mood

hopeful nostalgic

Type

narrative reflective

When to use this quote

  • moving to a new city
  • starting a job
  • traveling abroad

Key Concepts

social integration urban life

Questions to Reflect On

  • What steps can you take to build rapport?
  • How does familiarity affect your confidence?
A Different Perspective

Not everyone is welcoming.

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