I wanted to tell them that I'd never had a friend, not…
““I wanted to tell them that I'd never had a friend, not ever, not a real one. Until Dante. I wanted to tell them that I never knew that people like Dante existed in the world, people who looked at the stars, and knew the mysteries of water, and knew enough to know that birds belonged to the heavens and weren't meant to be shot down from their graceful flights by mean and stupid boys. I wanted to tell them that he had changed my life and that I would never be the same, not ever. And that somehow it felt like it was Dante who had saved my life and not the other way around. I wanted to tell them that he was the first human being aside from my mother who had ever made me want to talk about the things that scared me. I wanted to tell them so many things and yet I didn't have the words. So I just stupidly repeated myself. "Dante's my friend.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
The speaker credits a friend, Dante, for opening his world to wonder, encouraging him to confront fears and find purpose through shared curiosity.
In simple terms: A true friend reveals new perspectives and helps confront fear.
Cherish friends who expand your view.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- college friendships
- creative collaborations
- support groups
- personal crises
- learning new ideas
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What qualities make a friend transformative?
- How can you become that ‘Dante’ for others?
Friendship alone may not solve all problems; personal effort still required.