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“The next morning, I worked out at Murakami’s dojo in Asakusa. When I arrived, the men who were already training paused and gave me a low collective bow—a sign of their respect for the way I had dispatched Adonis. After that, I was treated in a dozen subtle ways with deference that bordered on awe…” quote by Barry Eisler
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““The next morning, I worked out at Murakami’s dojo in Asakusa. When I arrived, the men who were already training paused and gave me a low collective bow—a sign of their respect for the way I had dispatched Adonis. After that, I was treated in a dozen subtle ways with deference that bordered on awe. Even Washio, older than I and with a much longer and deeper association with the dojo, was using different verb forms to indicate that he now considered me his superior.””

Barry Eisler

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This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Respect is earned through demonstrated skill, altering social dynamics.

In simple terms: Skill earns respect and changes how others treat you.

Key Takeaway

Demonstrate competence to gain respect.

Themes

respect skill social hierarchy

Mood

respective pragmatic

Type

narrative inspirational

When to use this quote

  • workplace
  • team sports
  • martial arts
  • leadership

Key Concepts

sociology honor

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does competence affect your relationships?
  • When might humility be more valuable than skill?
A Different Perspective

Respect can be fleeting without humility.

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