The cause of their behaviors is low self-worth, which…
““The cause of their behaviors is low self-worth, which leads them to have poor shame tolerance. They learned in childhood to manage feelings of inadequacy by adopting unhealthy coping mechanisms to forestall or avoid shaming experiences. Poor shame tolerance causes behaviors associated with the just-mentioned DSM disorders, including vindictive anger, lack of insight and accountability, dishonesty, impulsivity, entitlement, paranoia, lack of remorse and empathy, self-importance, and attention-seeking. Trump is an extreme example, but “subclinical” versions of this behavior exist in millions of people, including domestic abusers.””
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Low self-worth creates poor shame tolerance, leading to unhealthy coping and harmful behaviors seen in many disorders, exemplified by extreme cases like Trump.
In simple terms: Low self-esteem fuels harmful actions.
Address self-worth to improve behavior.
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When to use this quote
- therapy
- education
- relationship counseling
- workplace training
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What can raise shame tolerance?
- How to support those with low self-esteem?
Not everyone with low self-worth becomes harmful; context matters.