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“Like when people (my parents) ask what I'm going to study in college and I say, "English." They say, "Oh. So you want to be a teacher?" And I want to cover my eyes and mouth with duct tape and pretend to be dead and done with it. No, you simpletons. I want to travel and write and live in a big…” quote by Arlaina Tibensky
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““Like when people (my parents) ask what I'm going to study in college and I say, "English." They say, "Oh. So you want to be a teacher?" And I want to cover my eyes and mouth with duct tape and pretend to be dead and done with it. No, you simpletons. I want to travel and write and live in a big city, and do cool things with my brain. This is not to disparage the fine and noble art of educating in any way. My English teachers have made me who I am today and I love them with a passion that surprises me. I just don't want to be one.””

Arlaina Tibensky

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker rejects the expectation that studying English leads to teaching, yearning for creative, urban experiences while honoring past mentors.

In simple terms: I love English but don’t want to teach; I want adventure and creative work.

Key Takeaway

Pursue your own path, not others’ assumptions.

Themes

identity career creativity family expectations self‑determination

Mood

frustrated hopeful determined

Type

personal reflective motivational

When to use this quote

  • college decision
  • career planning
  • urban living
  • creative projects

Key Concepts

vocational pressure artistic ambition mentor gratitude

Questions to Reflect On

  • What would you do if you ignored others’ expectations?
  • How can you honor mentors while forging a new path?
A Different Perspective

Family expectations may limit exploration of alternative careers.

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