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“If you make me your authority, you harm yourself because you will not see things for yourself, and you harm me too because you refuse to see me as I am.” quote by Anthony de Mello
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“If you make me your authority, you harm yourself because you will not see things for yourself, and you harm me too because you refuse to see me as I am.”

Anthony de Mello

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Relying on another for authority limits personal insight and harms both parties.

In simple terms: Dependence on authority blocks self‑knowledge and harms relationships.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate personal discernment.

Themes

authority self‑knowledge relationships

Mood

reflective inspirational

Type

philosophical self‑help

When to use this quote

  • personal growth
  • leadership coaching
  • conflict resolution

Key Concepts

psychology spiritual autonomy

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you respect guidance while maintaining self‑awareness?
  • When does reliance become detrimental?
A Different Perspective

Total autonomy can be isolating; balance is needed.

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