Don't we get it? To put our arm around someone who is gay…
“Don't we get it? To put our arm around someone who is gay, someone who has an addiction, somebody who lives a different lifestyle, someone who is not what we think they should be... doing that has nothing to do with enabling them or accepting what they do as okay by us. It has nothing to do with encouraging them in their practice of what you or I might feel or believe is wrong vs right.It has everything to do with being a good human being. A good person. A good friend.”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Treating all people with compassion is a moral act, not endorsement of their choices.
In simple terms: Compassion is about humanity, not approval.
Show empathy without judgment.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- supporting friends
- helping strangers
- community building
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you support without enabling?
- When does empathy become complicity?
Compassion can be misread as condoning harmful behavior.