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“We face up to awful things because we can't go around them, or forget them. The sooner you get it over with, the sooner you say 'Yes, it happened, and there's nothing I can do about it,' the sooner you can get on with your own life. You've got children to bring up. So you've got to get over it…” quote by Annie Proulx
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“We face up to awful things because we can't go around them, or forget them. The sooner you get it over with, the sooner you say 'Yes, it happened, and there's nothing I can do about it,' the sooner you can get on with your own life. You've got children to bring up. So you've got to get over it. What we have to get over, somehow we do. Even the worst things.”

Annie Proulx

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Facing painful realities head‑on allows healing and progress, especially for those caring for others.

In simple terms: Confront pain to move forward.

Key Takeaway

Accept reality, then act.

Themes

resilience acceptance parenting growth

Mood

empathetic motivational

Type

literary self‑help

When to use this quote

  • parenting crises
  • personal loss
  • health challenges
  • career setbacks

Key Concepts

psychology grief family dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What difficult truth are you avoiding?
  • How can you support others while caring for yourself?
A Different Perspective

Avoiding pain can lead to lingering trauma.

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