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I just stay still—stay still with the loss. Lean into it…

“I just stay still—stay still with the loss. Lean into it even, and feel the pain. I do not move on immediately. I let the loss absorb me first, completely.” quote by Annette Herfkens
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““I just stay still—stay still with the loss. Lean into it even, and feel the pain. I do not move on immediately. I let the loss absorb me first, completely.””

Annette Herfkens

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

She chooses to stay with her grief, allowing it to be fully felt before moving forward, rather than rushing the healing process.

In simple terms: Sit with loss, feel it fully before moving on.

Key Takeaway

Allow grief to be present, then heal.

Themes

grief acceptance mindfulness healing emotional processing

Mood

somber reflective patient

Type

personal anecdote reflection

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • personal reflection
  • support groups

Key Concepts

psychology of loss spiritual coping self‑compassion

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does “lean into loss” mean to you?
  • How can we balance feeling pain with daily responsibilities?
A Different Perspective

May delay practical progress.

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