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Jealousy always has been my cross, the weakness and…

“Jealousy always has been my cross, the weakness and woundedness in me that has most often caused me to feel ugly and unlovable, like the Bad Seed. I’ve had many years of recovery and therapy, years filled with intimate and devoted friendships, yet I still struggle. I know that when someone gets a…” quote by Anne Lamott
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“Jealousy always has been my cross, the weakness and woundedness in me that has most often caused me to feel ugly and unlovable, like the Bad Seed. I’ve had many years of recovery and therapy, years filled with intimate and devoted friendships, yet I still struggle. I know that when someone gets a big slice of pie, it doesn’t mean there’s less for me. In fact, I know that there isn’t even a pie, that there’s plenty to go around, enough food and love and air. But I don’t believe it for a second. I secretly believe there’s a pie. I will go to my grave brandishing my fork.”

Anne Lamott

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker struggles with jealousy, feeling unlovable, and a scarcity mindset despite therapy and friendships, revealing deep insecurity and a need for self‑compassion.

In simple terms: Jealousy makes me feel unlovable and scarce.

Key Takeaway

Practice gratitude and recognize abundance within and around you.

Themes

mental health jealousy self‑worth

Mood

hopeful vulnerable

Type

personal psychological

When to use this quote

  • therapy sessions
  • support groups
  • personal reflection

Key Concepts

scarcity mindset therapy friendship

Questions to Reflect On

  • What steps can you take to shift from scarcity to abundance?
  • How might you nurture self‑love despite lingering doubts?
A Different Perspective

Focusing on scarcity can hinder healing and growth.

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