Then I wanted to lock her away where no one could touch…
““Then I wanted to lock her away where no one could touch her, where I wouldn’t even let her touch herself. I wanted to take away her safety and make her long for her mats and blankets. I wanted to clamp her and plug her and chain her and train her to grovel at my feet. When she was completely broken, when her will and soul were mine, then I’d give her mats and blankets back. That’s what I wanted.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
The narrator expresses a desire for total control and domination over another, seeking to break their will before granting relief, reflecting a dark power dynamic.
In simple terms: A desire to dominate and break someone's spirit before offering comfort.
Recognize and reject abusive power fantasies.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- abusive relationships
- coercive control
- personal fantasies
- therapeutic settings
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What drives the need for control?
- How can victims reclaim agency?
The perspective is harmful and may glorify abuse, lacking consent and empathy.