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“Saw the man beside her who was finishing a cigarette give her a quick up and down from over his shoulder and then turn back to flick an ash onto the remains of his sandwich. She imagined returning his dismissive stare, and then maybe even letting her eyes linger distastefully on the crust of bread…” quote by Alice McDermott
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““Saw the man beside her who was finishing a cigarette give her a quick up and down from over his shoulder and then turn back to flick an ash onto the remains of his sandwich. She imagined returning his dismissive stare, and then maybe even letting her eyes linger distastefully on the crust of bread and the bitten dill pickle and the cigarette debris on his plate. She could slide the ashtray that was right there between them a little closer to his elbow—hint, hint. Emboldened, perhaps—was she?—by the fact that she’d just been asked out on a date.””

Alice McDermott

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

She contemplates subtle signals of interest during a date, hinting at desire for connection.

In simple terms: She reads small gestures for romantic interest.

Key Takeaway

Notice and interpret subtle social cues.

Themes

romance communication uncertainty

Mood

playful introspective

Type

literary conversational

When to use this quote

  • first dates
  • social anxiety
  • flirting
  • interpersonal perception

Key Concepts

social signaling body language dating dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What cues truly indicate interest?
  • How do we avoid projecting our hopes onto others?
A Different Perspective

Over‑reading can lead to misinterpretation.

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