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“...I have always believed I cd diagnose this state of being in love, which they regard as most particular, as inspired by item, one pair of black eyes or indifferent blue, item, one graceful attitude of body or mind, item, one female history of some twenty-two years from, shall we say…” quote by A.S. Byatt
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““...I have always believed I cd diagnose this state of being in love, which they regard as most particular, as inspired by item, one pair of black eyes or indifferent blue, item, one graceful attitude of body or mind, item, one female history of some twenty-two years from, shall we say, 1821-1844--I have always believed this in love to be something of the most abstract masking itself under the particular forms of both lover and beloved. And Poet, who assumes and informs both. I wd have told you--no, I do tell you--friendship is rarer, more idiosyncratic, more individual and in every way more durable than this Love.””

A.S. Byatt

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Love is an abstract, ever‑changing experience, while friendship is rarer, more individual, and more durable.

In simple terms: Love changes; friendship endures.

Key Takeaway

Value lasting friendships.

Themes

love friendship human connection

Mood

thoughtful poetic

Type

literary philosophical

When to use this quote

  • romantic relationships
  • long‑term friendships
  • creative collaborations

Key Concepts

philosophy psychology literature

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you distinguish love from deep friendship?
  • What makes a friendship endure?
A Different Perspective

Love’s intensity can mask its fleeting nature.

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