--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: We are not wounded so deeply when…" description: "\"We are not wounded so deeply when betrayed by the things we hope for as when betrayed by things we try our best to despise. In such betrayal comes the ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/323/yukio-mishima-1418_betrayal_we-are-not-wounded-so-deeply-when-betray_2142282.jpg" --- # We are not wounded so deeply when betrayed by the things… ![“We are not wounded so deeply when betrayed by the things we hope for as when betrayed by things we try our best to despise. In such betrayal comes the dagger in the back.” quote by Yukio Mishima](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/323/yukio-mishima-1418_betrayal_we-are-not-wounded-so-deeply-when-betray_2142282.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/323/yukio-mishima-1418_betrayal_we-are-not-wounded-so-deeply-when-betray_2142282.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/323/yukio-mishima-1418_betrayal_we-are-not-wounded-so-deeply-when-betray_2142282.jpg) > “We are not wounded so deeply when betrayed by the things we hope for as when betrayed by things we try our best to despise. In such betrayal comes the dagger in the back.” [Yukio Mishima](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/yukio-mishima/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Betrayal by cherished hopes hurts more than betrayal by despised targets; the pain feels like a dagger in the back. **In simple terms:** Hopeful betrayal hurts deeper than despised betrayal. Key Takeaway Guard expectations wisely. Themes betrayal hope disappointment Mood melancholic reflective Type philosophical literary When to use this quote - personal relationships - career ambitions - political alliances - creative projects Key Concepts psychology of expectation trust dynamics Questions to Reflect On - What expectations have you placed on others? - How can you balance hope with realism? 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