--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Kazu, now that she thought of it…" description: "\"“Kazu, now that she thought of it, realized that for all her headstrong temperament, she had never loved a man younger than herself. A young man has su..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/324/yukio-mishima-1418_age_kazu-now-that-she-thought-of-it-realized_352018.jpg" --- # Kazu, now that she thought of it, realized that for all… ![“Kazu, now that she thought of it, realized that for all her headstrong temperament, she had never loved a man younger than herself. A young man has such a surplus of spiritual and physical gifts that he is likely to be cocksure of himself, particularly when dealing with an older woman, and there…” quote by Yukio Mishima](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/324/yukio-mishima-1418_age_kazu-now-that-she-thought-of-it-realized_352018.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/324/yukio-mishima-1418_age_kazu-now-that-she-thought-of-it-realized_352018.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/324/yukio-mishima-1418_age_kazu-now-that-she-thought-of-it-realized_352018.jpg) > ““Kazu, now that she thought of it, realized that for all her headstrong temperament, she had never loved a man younger than herself. A young man has such a surplus of spiritual and physical gifts that he is likely to be cocksure of himself, particularly when dealing with an older woman, and there is no telling how swelled up with self-importance he may become. Besides, Kazu felt a physical repugnance for youth. A woman is more keenly aware than a man of the shocking disharmony between a young man's spiritual and physical qualities, and Kazu had never met a young man who wore his youth well. She was moreover repelled by the sleekness of a young man's skin.”” [Yukio Mishima](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/yukio-mishima/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Explores a woman's complex aversion to younger men, mixing admiration and repulsion toward youthful vigor. **In simple terms:** She dislikes younger men despite their energy. Key Takeaway Reflect on personal biases toward age. 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