--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Mutuality is accomplished by two whole…" description: "\"“Mutuality is accomplished by two whole persons; and if each partner truly intends to be but the fraction of a relationship (thinking my whole makes up..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/db3/walter-wangerin-jr-25465_marriage_mutuality-is-accomplished-by-two-whole-p_2167498.jpg" --- # Mutuality is accomplished by two whole persons; and if… ![“Mutuality is accomplished by two whole persons; and if each partner truly intends to be but the fraction of a relationship (thinking my whole makes up half of us) he or she will soon discover that these halves do not fit perfectly together. The mathematics can work only if each subtracts something…” quote by Walter Wangerin Jr](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/db3/walter-wangerin-jr-25465_marriage_mutuality-is-accomplished-by-two-whole-p_2167498.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/db3/walter-wangerin-jr-25465_marriage_mutuality-is-accomplished-by-two-whole-p_2167498.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/db3/walter-wangerin-jr-25465_marriage_mutuality-is-accomplished-by-two-whole-p_2167498.jpg) > ““Mutuality is accomplished by two whole persons; and if each partner truly intends to be but the fraction of a relationship (thinking my whole makes up half of us) he or she will soon discover that these halves do not fit perfectly together. The mathematics can work only if each subtracts something of himself or herself, shears it off, and lays it aside forever. There will come, then, a moment of shock when one spouse realizes, ‘you won’t want the whole of me? Not the whole of me, but only a part of me, makes up the whole of us?” P 45”” [Walter Wangerin Jr](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/walter-wangerin-jr/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. True partnership requires each person to give up parts of themselves, allowing the whole relationship to function harmoniously. **In simple terms:** Relationships need mutual sacrifice and integration. Key Takeaway Embrace mutual compromise to strengthen bonds. Themes relationships compromise unity Mood thoughtful hopeful Type philosophical inspirational When to use this quote - marriage counseling - team projects - friendship dynamics Key Concepts Selflessness integration balance Questions to Reflect On - What part of yourself are you willing to share? - How do you maintain identity while compromising? 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