--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Yeah. I can see what you bring out in…" description: "\"“Yeah. I can see what you bring out in him. You don’t know this because you’ve never experienced it, but Four without you is a much different person. H..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/948/veronica-roth-66_courage_yeah-i-can-see-what-you-bring-out-in-him_1307701.jpg" --- # Yeah. I can see what you bring out in him. You don’t know… ![“Yeah. I can see what you bring out in him. You don’t know this because you’ve never experienced it, but Four without you is a much different person. He’s . . . obsessive, explosive, insecure . . ." “Obsessive?” “What else do you call someone who repeatedly goes through his own fear landscape?” “I…” quote by Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/948/veronica-roth-66_courage_yeah-i-can-see-what-you-bring-out-in-him_1307701.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/948/veronica-roth-66_courage_yeah-i-can-see-what-you-bring-out-in-him_1307701.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/948/veronica-roth-66_courage_yeah-i-can-see-what-you-bring-out-in-him_1307701.jpg) > ““Yeah. I can see what you bring out in him. You don’t know this because you’ve never experienced it, but Four without you is a much different person. He’s . . . obsessive, explosive, insecure . . ." “Obsessive?” “What else do you call someone who repeatedly goes through his own fear landscape?” “I don’t know . . . determined.” I pause. “Brave.” “Yeah, sure. But also a little bit crazy, right? I mean, most Dauntless would rather leap into the chasm than keep going through their fear landscapes. There’s bravery and then there’s masochism, and the line got a little hazy with him.”” [Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The speaker reflects on how a person's behavior changes without a key influence, mixing bravery with self‑destructive tendencies. **In simple terms:** People act differently when a crucial person is gone, mixing courage and recklessness. Key Takeaway Recognize when bravery turns into harmful obsession. Themes identity influence bravery masochism psychology Mood conflicted thoughtful analytical Type literary psychological character study When to use this quote - relationships - personal growth - mental health - risk assessment Key Concepts self‑concept fear determination obsession Questions to Reflect On - How do you differentiate healthy courage from harmful obsession? - When does confronting fear become masochism? A Different Perspective Bravery can become self‑harm when fear is repeatedly pursued. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Courage](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/courage/) [Fear](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/fear/) [Little Bit Crazy](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/little-bit-crazy/) ## Related quotes > [Of course I don't think I have it made by any means. I'm too insecure, obsessive and paranoid for that.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/harvey-pekar/of-course-i-don-t-think-i-have-it-made-by-any-means-i-m-too-insecure/) [Harvey Pekar](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/harvey-pekar/) > [I might be a little bit crazy.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/dot-dot-curve/i-might-be-a-little-bit-crazy/) Dot Dot Curve > [Nobody today is normal, everybody is a little bit crazy or unbalanced, people's minds are running all the time. Their perceptions of the world…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/taisen-deshimaru/nobody-today-is-normal-everybody-is-a-little-bit-crazy-or-unbalanced/) [Taisen Deshimaru](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/taisen-deshimaru/) > [L.A. runs on optimism, enthusiasm and flattery. I think you can go a little bit crazy. I've heard people say there's a limit to…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/hugh-laurie/l-a-runs-on-optimism-enthusiasm-and-flattery-i-think-you-can-go-a/) [Hugh Laurie](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/hugh-laurie/) > [My genetic makeup is a little bit crazy.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/mats-wilander/my-genetic-makeup-is-a-little-bit-crazy/) [Mats Wilander](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/mats-wilander/) > [When I go back to Japan it's a little bit crazy. I usually have to wear a hat and glasses otherwise I cannot go…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kei-nishikori/when-i-go-back-to-japan-it-s-a-little-bit-crazy-i-usually-have-to/) [Kei Nishikori](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/kei-nishikori/) > [Now it's like, I'll go to Starbucks, or I'll go to the mall or anywhere, and lots of people will recognize me, and I'm…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/sadie-sink/now-it-s-like-i-ll-go-to-starbucks-or-i-ll-go-to-the-mall-or-anywhere/) [Sadie Sink](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/sadie-sink/) > [I'm not scared of it... I feel that I am a cat lady, I'm a little bit crazy because I love them so much…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/beth-ostrosky-stern/i-m-not-scared-of-it-i-feel-that-i-am-a-cat-lady-i-m-a-little-bit/) [Beth Ostrosky Stern](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/beth-ostrosky-stern/) > [I am a Scorpio so I am a little bit crazy.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/brandi-glanville/i-am-a-scorpio-so-i-am-a-little-bit-crazy/) [Brandi Glanville](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/brandi-glanville/) > [I want you to try and remember what it was like to have been very young. And particularly the days when you were first…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/thornton-wilder/i-want-you-to-try-and-remember-what-it-was-like-to-have-been-very/) [Thornton Wilder](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/thornton-wilder/) > [Those are real hard fans. There are a lot of them here. Some are a little bit crazy with their drinking their beers every…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/maria-sharapova/those-are-real-hard-fans-there-are-a-lot-of-them-here-some-are-a/) [Maria Sharapova](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/maria-sharapova/) > [“It might be a little bit crazy, even. Like, for real crazy. Not just 'oh isn't that charming and endearing' crazy but 'wow that…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/lauren-barnholdt/it-might-be-a-little-bit-crazy-even-like-for-real-crazy-not-just-oh/) [Lauren Barnholdt](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/lauren-barnholdt/) > [Dreams, if they're any good, are always a little bit crazy.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/ray-charles/dreams-if-they-re-any-good-are-always-a-little-bit-crazy/) [Ray Charles](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/ray-charles/) > [I get maybe four hours of sleep a night. I'm a little bit crazy.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/mayim-bialik/i-get-maybe-four-hours-of-sleep-a-night-i-m-a-little-bit-crazy/) [Mayim Bialik](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/mayim-bialik/) > [Maybe he's only a little bit crazy, like painters, or composers, or some of those men in Washington.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/blaise-pascal/maybe-he-s-only-a-little-bit-crazy-like-painters-or-composers-or-some/) [Blaise Pascal](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/blaise-pascal/) ## More by Veronica Roth > [How strange that something so simple could have been instrumental in my decision to ruin one of my most relationships and friendships, and damage…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/how-strange-that-something-so-simple-could-have-been-instrumental-in/) [Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) > [“I was beginning to feel that I had finally found a place to stay, a place that was not so unstable or corrupt or…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/i-was-beginning-to-feel-that-i-had-finally-found-a-place-to-stay-a/) [Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) > [“He acts so tough that he’s probably afraid of marshmallows and really bright sunrises or something. Overcompensating.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/he-acts-so-tough-that-he-s-probably-afraid-of-marshmallows-and-really/) [Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) > [And is it selfish of me to crave victory, or is it brave?](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/and-is-it-selfish-of-me-to-crave-victory-or-is-it-brave/) [Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) > [You always look like someone's sucked the life right out of you when something fascinates you. -Tris](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/you-always-look-like-someone-s-sucked-the-life-right-out-of-you-when/) [Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) > [“We can be mended. We mend each other.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/we-can-be-mended-we-mend-each-other/) [Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) > [Don’t worry about me handling the pain," I say. "I’ve had a lot of practice.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/don-t-worry-about-me-handling-the-pain-i-say-i-ve-had-a-lot-of/) [Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) > [Soon I will honor my parents by dying as they died. and if all they believed about death was true, soon I will join…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/soon-i-will-honor-my-parents-by-dying-as-they-died-and-if-all-they/) [Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) > [“Mas lembre-se, já agora, que por vezes as pessoas que oprimimos tornam-se mais poderosas do que nós gostaríamos.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/mas-lembre-se-j-agora-que-por-vezes-as-pessoas-que-oprimimos-tornam/) [Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) > [“am aware of how little space there is between us—six inches at most. That space feels charged with electricity. I feel like it should…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/am-aware-of-how-little-space-there-is-between-us-six-inches-at-most/) [Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) > [“Oh, good,” I say, a sour taste in my mouth. “Heroism is what I was focused on. Not, you know, trying not to die.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/oh-good-i-say-a-sour-taste-in-my-mouth-heroism-is-what-i-was-focused/) [Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) > [“Caleb frowns at him. "How old are you, anyway?" "Eighteen." "And you don't think you're too old to be with my little sister?" Tobias…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/caleb-frowns-at-him-how-old-are-you-anyway-eighteen-and-you-don-t/) [Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) > [What do you think they're going to do to us when they find us guilty?" she says after a few minutes of silence have…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/what-do-you-think-they-re-going-to-do-to-us-when-they-find-us-guilty/) [Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) > [“La paz está restringida, eso es libertad”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/la-paz-est-restringida-eso-es-libertad/) [Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) > [In some parts of the ancient world, the hawk symbolized the sun. Back when I got this, I figured if I always had the…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/in-some-parts-of-the-ancient-world-the-hawk-symbolized-the-sun-back/) [Veronica Roth](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) [Explore all 1,589 Veronica Roth quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/) ## More Courage quotes > [The greatest act of courage is to be and to ownall of who you are—without apology, without excuses, without masks to cover the truth…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/debbie-ford/the-greatest-act-of-courage-is-to-be-and-to-ownall-of-who-you-are/) [Debbie Ford](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/debbie-ford/) > [“It takes tremendous courage, persistence, and perseverance to pursue your ultimate purpose.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/debasish-mridha/it-takes-tremendous-courage-persistence-and-perseverance-to-pursue/) [Debasish Mridha](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/debasish-mridha/) > [“Yes, the issue was courage. It always had been, even as a kid. Things scared him. He couldn't help it. Noise scared him, dark…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/tim-o-brien/yes-the-issue-was-courage-it-always-had-been-even-as-a-kid-things/) [Tim O'Brien](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tim-o-brien/) > [Our young Marines of today are courageous, willing to make sacrifices, and are marvelous team players. I am confident our Corps, and indeed our…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/james-t-conway/our-young-marines-of-today-are-courageous-willing-to-make-sacrifices/) James T. Conway > [Courage: the most important of all the virtues because without courage, you can't practice any other virtue consistently](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/maya-angelou/courage-the-most-important-of-all-the-virtues-because-without-courage/) [Maya Angelou](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/maya-angelou/) > [“Tranquillity is courage in repose. It is a statical manifestation of valor, as daring deeds are a dynamical. A truly brave man is ever…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/inazo-nitobe/tranquillity-is-courage-in-repose-it-is-a-statical-manifestation-of/) [Inazo Nitobe](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/inazo-nitobe/) > [When you heed the calling of your heart, you are following your purpose. Having purpose in your life gives you the courage to do…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/rhonda-britten/when-you-heed-the-calling-of-your-heart-you-are-following-your/) [Rhonda Britten](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/rhonda-britten/) > [“Of all the train, none escaped except Wamba, who showed upon the occasion much more courage than those who pretended to greater sense.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/walter-scott/of-all-the-train-none-escaped-except-wamba-who-showed-upon-the/) [Walter Scott](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/walter-scott/) > [The four Cs of making dreams come true: Curiosity, Courage, Consistency, Confidence.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/walt-disney/the-four-cs-of-making-dreams-come-true-curiosity-courage-consistency/) [Walt Disney](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/walt-disney/) > [Certainly these are not easy times. But history does not contain very many easy times. Years from now, we will look back at this…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/laura-ingraham/certainly-these-are-not-easy-times-but-history-does-not-contain-very/) [Laura Ingraham](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/laura-ingraham/) > [Have the courage to go against the tide of current values that do not conform to the path of Jesus.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/pope-francis/have-the-courage-to-go-against-the-tide-of-current-values-that-do-not/) [Pope Francis](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/pope-francis/) > [“There is nothing purer, braver, or more beautiful than the try.”](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/kristen-armstrong/there-is-nothing-purer-braver-or-more-beautiful-than-the-try/) Kristen Armstrong > [“One theory on cannibals, of course, is that they eat parts of their slain enemies to benefit from that person's greatest assets - their…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/julie-powell/one-theory-on-cannibals-of-course-is-that-they-eat-parts-of-their/) [Julie Powell](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/julie-powell/) > [It is a tragedy that we live in a world where physical courage is so common, and moral courage is so rare.](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/claude-monet/it-is-a-tragedy-that-we-live-in-a-world-where-physical-courage-is-so/) [Claude Monet](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/claude-monet/) > [I have pictures with Morimoto where I'm all embarrassed and he's so serious, it took me 30 minutes to get up the courage to…](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/marcela-valladolid/i-have-pictures-with-morimoto-where-i-m-all-embarrassed-and-he-s-so/) [Marcela Valladolid](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/marcela-valladolid/) [Browse all 14,559 Courage quotes ](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/courage/) ```json { "@context": "https://schema.org", "@graph": [ { "@type": "Quotation", "text": "“Yeah. I can see what you bring out in him. You don’t know this because you’ve never experienced it, but Four without you is a much different person. He’s . . . obsessive, explosive, insecure . . .\" “Obsessive?” “What else do you call someone who repeatedly goes through his own fear landscape?” “I don’t know . . . determined.” I pause. “Brave.” “Yeah, sure. But also a little bit crazy, right? I mean, most Dauntless would rather leap into the chasm than keep going through their fear landscapes. There’s bravery and then there’s masochism, and the line got a little hazy with him.”", "creator": { "@type": "Person", "name": "Veronica Roth" }, "isPartOf": { "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#website" }, "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/yeah-i-can-see-what-you-bring-out-in-him-you-don-t-know-this-because/", "about": { "@type": "Thing", "name": "Courage" }, "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/yeah-i-can-see-what-you-bring-out-in-him-you-don-t-know-this-because/#quotation", "image": { "@type": "ImageObject", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/948/veronica-roth-66_courage_yeah-i-can-see-what-you-bring-out-in-him_1307701.jpg", "contentUrl": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/948/veronica-roth-66_courage_yeah-i-can-see-what-you-bring-out-in-him_1307701.jpg", "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/948/veronica-roth-66_courage_yeah-i-can-see-what-you-bring-out-in-him_1307701.jpg", "width": 1080, "height": 1080, "caption": "“Yeah. I can see what you bring out in him. You don’t know this because you’ve never experienced it, but Four…” — Veronica Roth", "creditText": "SMS4Smile Quotes", "creator": { "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#organization" } } }, { "@type": "BreadcrumbList", "itemListElement": [ { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 1, "name": "Home", "item": "https://sms4smile.com/" }, { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 2, "name": "Quotes", "item": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/" }, { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 3, "name": "Veronica Roth", "item": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/veronica-roth/" }, { "@type": "ListItem", "position": 4, "name": "“Yeah. I can see what you...", "item": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/yeah-i-can-see-what-you-bring-out-in-him-you-don-t-know-this-because/" } ], "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/veronica-roth/yeah-i-can-see-what-you-bring-out-in-him-you-don-t-know-this-because/#breadcrumb" }, { "@type": "WebSite", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#website", "name": "SMS4Smile Quotes", "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/", "publisher": { "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#organization" } }, { "@type": "Organization", "@id": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/#organization", "name": "SMS4Smile Quotes", "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/", "logo": { "@type": "ImageObject", "url": "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/wp-content/themes/sq/assets/icons/icon-512.png", "width": 512, "height": 512 } } ] } ```