--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: The reality that is present to us and in…" description: "\"The reality that is present to us and in us: call it being...Silence. And the simple fact that by being attentive, by learning to listen (or recovering..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/ee7/thomas-merton-231_capacity_the-reality-that-is-present-to-us-and-in_1144415.jpg" --- # The reality that is present to us and in us: call it… ![“The reality that is present to us and in us: call it being...Silence. And the simple fact that by being attentive, by learning to listen (or recovering the natural capacity to listen) we can find ourself engulfed in such happiness that it cannot be explained: the happiness of being at one with…” quote by Thomas Merton](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/ee7/thomas-merton-231_capacity_the-reality-that-is-present-to-us-and-in_1144415.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/ee7/thomas-merton-231_capacity_the-reality-that-is-present-to-us-and-in_1144415.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/ee7/thomas-merton-231_capacity_the-reality-that-is-present-to-us-and-in_1144415.jpg) > “The reality that is present to us and in us: call it being...Silence. And the simple fact that by being attentive, by learning to listen (or recovering the natural capacity to listen) we can find ourself engulfed in such happiness that it cannot be explained: the happiness of being at one with everything in that hidden ground of Love for which there can be no explanations… May we all grow in grace and peace, and not neglect the silence that is printed in the center of our being. It will not fail us.” [Thomas Merton](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/thomas-merton/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Attentive silence reveals an indescribable unity with love, fostering grace and peace when we honor our inner quiet. **In simple terms:** Listening in silence brings deep, unexplainable joy and unity with love. Key Takeaway Cultivate attentive silence for inner peace. Themes spirituality inner peace mindfulness Mood calm hopeful reflective Type philosophical inspirational When to use this quote - meditation - personal reflection - spiritual practice - healing - stress relief Key Concepts unity love grace Questions to Reflect On - How can you integrate attentive silence into daily life? - What barriers prevent you from listening deeply? 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