--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: At the least, bear patiently, if thou…" description: "\"“At the least, bear patiently, if thou canst not joyfully. And although thou be very unwilling to hear it, and feel indignation, yet check thyself, and..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5c6/thomas-a-kempis-721_frustration_at-the-least-bear-patiently-if-thou-cans_2410248.png" --- # At the least, bear patiently, if thou canst not joyfully… ![“At the least, bear patiently, if thou canst not joyfully. And although thou be very unwilling to hear it, and feel indignation, yet check thyself, and suffer no unadvised word to come forth from thy lips, whereby the little ones may be offended. Soon the storm which hath been raised shall be…” quote by Thomas à Kempis](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5c6/thomas-a-kempis-721_frustration_at-the-least-bear-patiently-if-thou-cans_2410248.png) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5c6/thomas-a-kempis-721_frustration_at-the-least-bear-patiently-if-thou-cans_2410248.png) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5c6/thomas-a-kempis-721_frustration_at-the-least-bear-patiently-if-thou-cans_2410248.png) > ““At the least, bear patiently, if thou canst not joyfully. And although thou be very unwilling to hear it, and feel indignation, yet check thyself, and suffer no unadvised word to come forth from thy lips, whereby the little ones may be offended. Soon the storm which hath been raised shall be stilled, and inward grief shall be sweetened by returning grace.”” [Thomas à Kempis](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/thomas-a-kempis/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Advice to bear hardships patiently, restrain harsh words, and trust that grief will soften with grace. **In simple terms:** Endure patiently, avoid hurtful speech, trust grace. Key Takeaway Practice patience and gentle speech. Themes patience grace self‑restraint Mood calm thoughtful Type spiritual advice When to use this quote - conflict - parenting - spiritual practice Key Concepts forgiveness emotional regulation Questions to Reflect On - How do you check yourself before speaking? - What grace can you offer yourself? 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