--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Worthless. It wasn’t that I viewed my…" description: "\"“Worthless. It wasn’t that I viewed my tears as a weakness; it was that I knew what they’d said was true. I was a nothing. No one looked forward to see..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/db2/teresa-mummert-4826_dreams_worthless-it-wasn-t-that-i-viewed-my-tea_482002.jpg" --- # Worthless. It wasn’t that I viewed my tears as a weakness… ![“Worthless. It wasn’t that I viewed my tears as a weakness; it was that I knew what they’d said was true. I was a nothing. No one looked forward to seeing me in the morning. No one laid his head on his pillow at night to dream of me. I existed by pure accident, and no one would let me forget how…” quote by Teresa Mummert](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/db2/teresa-mummert-4826_dreams_worthless-it-wasn-t-that-i-viewed-my-tea_482002.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/db2/teresa-mummert-4826_dreams_worthless-it-wasn-t-that-i-viewed-my-tea_482002.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/db2/teresa-mummert-4826_dreams_worthless-it-wasn-t-that-i-viewed-my-tea_482002.jpg) > ““Worthless. It wasn’t that I viewed my tears as a weakness; it was that I knew what they’d said was true. I was a nothing. No one looked forward to seeing me in the morning. No one laid his head on his pillow at night to dream of me. I existed by pure accident, and no one would let me forget how unwanted I was.”” [Teresa Mummert](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/teresa-mummert/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The narrator feels profound alienation, believing they are unwanted and defined by others’ negative judgments. **In simple terms:** Feeling unwanted and defined by others. Key Takeaway Recognize self‑worth beyond others’ opinions. Themes loneliness self‑esteem identity Mood sad reflective Type personal emotional When to use this quote - mental health therapy - support groups - journaling - self‑compassion exercises Key Concepts existential dread validation self‑identity Questions to Reflect On - What evidence contradicts the belief of being unwanted? - How can one cultivate internal validation? A Different Perspective The narrative may overlook external factors that can improve self‑image. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Dreams](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/dreams/) [Weakness](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/weakness/) ## Related quotes > [“I am fed up. 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