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title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: If we cannot remain present during sleep…"
description: "\"If we cannot remain present during sleep, if we lose ourselves every night, what chance do we have to be aware when death comes? If we enter our dreams..."
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#  If we cannot remain present during sleep, if we lose…

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> “If we cannot remain present during sleep, if we lose ourselves every night, what chance do we have to be aware when death comes? If we enter our dreams and interact with the mind's images as if they are real, we should not expect to be free in the state after death. Look to your experience in dreams to know how you will fare in death. Look to your experience of sleep to discover whether or not you are truly awake.”

[Tenzin Wangyal Rinpoche](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/tenzin-wangyal-rinpoche/)

## About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Awareness of consciousness in sleep reveals how we face death; dreams mirror our waking awareness.

**In simple terms:** Dreams show our true state of awareness.

Key Takeaway

Observe sleep to gauge waking clarity.

Themes

mindfulness death dreams consciousness spirituality

Mood

reflective curious

Type

spiritual philosophical

When to use this quote

- meditation retreats
- sleep studies
- psychotherapy
- spiritual counseling

Key Concepts

Buddhist practice psychology existential insight

Questions to Reflect On

- What does your dream life say about your waking mind?
- Can sleep awareness truly predict death awareness?

A Different Perspective

Dreams may be unreliable indicators of ultimate awareness.

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