--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: When I was young, I lacked certainty…" description: "\"“When I was young, I lacked certainty, too,” he says. “I have the certainty, now, of not needing certainty. I have the certainty, of uncertainty. The p..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/6b7/t-scott-mcleod-13148_buddhism_when-i-was-young-i-lacked-certainty-too_1379760.jpg" --- # When I was young, I lacked certainty, too,” he says. “I… ![“When I was young, I lacked certainty, too,” he says. “I have the certainty, now, of not needing certainty. I have the certainty, of uncertainty. The peace, with being uncertain. All is good. All is holy. Whatever you choose, it can be fine. Hatred never ceases with hatred, but with love alone is…” quote by T. 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Accepting uncertainty brings peace; love and acceptance heal hatred and rejection, allowing freedom to choose without fear. **In simple terms:** Peace comes from embracing uncertainty and love. Key Takeaway Choose love, accept uncertainty. Themes uncertainty peace love acceptance healing Mood calm hopeful resolute Type psychological spiritual When to use this quote - decision making - conflict resolution - personal growth - mindfulness practice - relationship counseling Key Concepts paradox of certainty emotional resilience spiritual growth Questions to Reflect On - What would change if you let go of needing certainty? - How can love transform conflict? 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