--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: It doesn't matter. I've moved on from…" description: "\"“It doesn't matter. I've moved on from something that was never there to begin with. That's one of the dire things about escaping from childhood. Event..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/847/t-j-klune-1425_childhood_it-doesn-t-matter-i-ve-moved-on-from-som_2435344.jpg" --- # It doesn't matter. I've moved on from something that was… ![“It doesn't matter. I've moved on from something that was never there to begin with. That's one of the dire things about escaping from childhood. Eventually you grow up and realize the things you wanted when you were young weren't really yours to ask for. I know that now.” quote by T.J. Klune](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/847/t-j-klune-1425_childhood_it-doesn-t-matter-i-ve-moved-on-from-som_2435344.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/847/t-j-klune-1425_childhood_it-doesn-t-matter-i-ve-moved-on-from-som_2435344.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/847/t-j-klune-1425_childhood_it-doesn-t-matter-i-ve-moved-on-from-som_2435344.jpg) > ““It doesn't matter. I've moved on from something that was never there to begin with. That's one of the dire things about escaping from childhood. Eventually you grow up and realize the things you wanted when you were young weren't really yours to ask for. I know that now.”” [T.J. Klune](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/t-j-klune/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Escaping childhood fantasies reveals that many desires were never truly ours. **In simple terms:** Childhood wishes often aren’t ours. 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