--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Please let him come, and give me the…" description: "\"Please let him come, and give me the resilience & guts to make him respect me, be interested, and not to throw myself at him with loudness or hysterica..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/299/sylvia-plath-149_baby_please-let-him-come-and-give-me-the-resi_2979460.jpg" --- # Please let him come, and give me the resilience & guts to… ![“Please let him come, and give me the resilience & guts to make him respect me, be interested, and not to throw myself at him with loudness or hysterical yelling; calmly, gently, easy baby easy. He is probably strutting the backs among crocuses now with seven Scandinavian mistresses. And I sit…” quote by Sylvia Plath](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/299/sylvia-plath-149_baby_please-let-him-come-and-give-me-the-resi_2979460.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/299/sylvia-plath-149_baby_please-let-him-come-and-give-me-the-resi_2979460.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/299/sylvia-plath-149_baby_please-let-him-come-and-give-me-the-resi_2979460.jpg) > “Please let him come, and give me the resilience & guts to make him respect me, be interested, and not to throw myself at him with loudness or hysterical yelling; calmly, gently, easy baby easy. He is probably strutting the backs among crocuses now with seven Scandinavian mistresses. And I sit, spiderlike, waiting, here, home; Penelope weaving webs of Webster, turning spindles of Tourneur. Oh, he is here; my black marauder; oh hungry hungry. I am so hungry for a big smashing creative burgeoning burdened love: I am here; I wait; and he plays on the banks of the river Cam like a casual faun.” [Sylvia Plath](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/sylvia-plath/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. A yearning for a powerful, respectful love expressed through mythic and poetic imagery. **In simple terms:** Desire for deep, respectful love. Key Takeaway Seek mutual respect. Themes love desire respect mythic Mood longing intense Type poetic reflective When to use this quote - romantic pursuit - personal boundaries - creative expression Key Concepts poetry mythology Questions to Reflect On - How can you balance desire with self‑respect? - What does respectful love look like for you? 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