--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Longing, for everyone, is always there…" description: "\"Longing, for everyone, is always there, isn't it? More intense at some times than others. You get closer to less longing - an odd metaphoric phrasing, ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a5c/susan-minot-11041_again_longing-for-everyone-is-always-there-isn_3138683.png" --- # Longing, for everyone, is always there, isn't it? More… ![“Longing, for everyone, is always there, isn't it? More intense at some times than others. You get closer to less longing - an odd metaphoric phrasing, I realize - then, you are further and longing more than ever again.” quote by Susan Minot](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a5c/susan-minot-11041_again_longing-for-everyone-is-always-there-isn_3138683.png) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a5c/susan-minot-11041_again_longing-for-everyone-is-always-there-isn_3138683.png) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/a5c/susan-minot-11041_again_longing-for-everyone-is-always-there-isn_3138683.png) > “Longing, for everyone, is always there, isn't it? More intense at some times than others. You get closer to less longing - an odd metaphoric phrasing, I realize - then, you are further and longing more than ever again.” [Susan Minot](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/susan-minot/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. The quote reflects on the perpetual nature of longing, noting its fluctuations and how reducing one desire can paradoxically increase others. **In simple terms:** Longing never truly ends; it shifts. Key Takeaway Recognize and accept the ebb and flow of desire. Themes longing human nature psychology Mood reflective melancholic Type philosophical observational When to use this quote - relationships - personal growth - mental health - creative work Key Concepts desire cycles paradox of satisfaction Questions to Reflect On - How do you balance desire and contentment? - What triggers intensified longing for you? 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