--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Don't say you're sorry, ask me how much…" description: "\"“Don't say you're sorry, ask me how much it cost.”\" — Stuart Connelly" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/53e/stuart-connelly-72488_apologies_don-t-say-you-re-sorry-ask-me-how-much-i_1352693.jpg" --- # Don't say you're sorry, ask me how much it cost. ![“Don't say you're sorry, ask me how much it cost.” quote by Stuart Connelly](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/53e/stuart-connelly-72488_apologies_don-t-say-you-re-sorry-ask-me-how-much-i_1352693.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/53e/stuart-connelly-72488_apologies_don-t-say-you-re-sorry-ask-me-how-much-i_1352693.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/53e/stuart-connelly-72488_apologies_don-t-say-you-re-sorry-ask-me-how-much-i_1352693.jpg) > ““Don't say you're sorry, ask me how much it cost.”” Stuart Connelly ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Instead of apologizing, demand compensation for the damage caused, emphasizing accountability over remorse. **In simple terms:** Ask for restitution, not just apologies. Key Takeaway Seek fair compensation. Themes justice accountability power dynamics relationships negotiation Mood direct assertive Type philosophical practical When to use this quote - legal disputes - personal relationships - business contracts Key Concepts reparations conflict resolution ethical behavior Questions to Reflect On - When is demanding compensation appropriate? - How to balance empathy and accountability? A Different Perspective May be perceived as confrontational. ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Apologies](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/apologies/) ## Related quotes > [“Don’t ask what it will cost or how much of your time you will have to sacrifice. 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