--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I first believed in love at first sight…" description: "\"I first believed in love at first sight but then again reality dawned on me when you treated me like crap..when you wanted sex..you always called but a..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/eba/soh-niyah-109690_first-sight_i-first-believed-in-love-at-first-sight_1798581.jpg" --- # I first believed in love at first sight but then again… ![“I first believed in love at first sight but then again reality dawned on me when you treated me like crap..when you wanted sex..you always called but after that you vanished into thin air!i always asked myself why..but then..i finally saw the picture..there it was right infront of me!i was the…” quote by SoH-NiYaH](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/eba/soh-niyah-109690_first-sight_i-first-believed-in-love-at-first-sight_1798581.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/eba/soh-niyah-109690_first-sight_i-first-believed-in-love-at-first-sight_1798581.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/eba/soh-niyah-109690_first-sight_i-first-believed-in-love-at-first-sight_1798581.jpg) > “I first believed in love at first sight but then again reality dawned on me when you treated me like crap..when you wanted sex..you always called but after that you vanished into thin air!i always asked myself why..but then..i finally saw the picture..there it was right infront of me!i was the side chick!my vulnerability was used to your advantage!i guess such is life..we don't always get what we want!i just regret and curse the day I met you!God knows best!you have used me and although its difficult for me to accept I know and believe so far as God is alive..i would find someone who would truly love me unconditionally!not some dumbass dude who doesn't even know what he wants!!!” [SoH-NiYaH](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/soh-niyah/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Narrates betrayal and heartbreak, ending with a hopeful desire for unconditional love and divine guidance. **In simple terms:** Describes being used and yearning for true love and faith. Key Takeaway Seek unconditional love and divine support. Themes betrayal love faith vulnerability self‑worth Mood sad hopeful spiritual Type believed:0 first sight:0 god knows:0 god knows best:0 love:1 love at first sight:0 love unconditionally:1 relationship:1 truly love:0 side chick:1 god is alive:0 believed love:0 wanted sex:0 When to use this quote - counseling - faith communities - support groups Key Concepts relationship trauma spiritual healing self‑respect personal growth Questions to Reflect On - How can you heal after betrayal? - What does unconditional love mean to you? 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