--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: We want to get behind the beauty, but it…" description: "\"“We want to get behind the beauty, but it is only a surface. It is like a mirror that reflects to us our own desire for good. It is a sphinx, an enigma..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d7d/simone-weil-544_beauty_we-want-to-get-behind-the-beauty-but-it_2295893.jpg" --- # We want to get behind the beauty, but it is only a… ![“We want to get behind the beauty, but it is only a surface. It is like a mirror that reflects to us our own desire for good. It is a sphinx, an enigma, a sorrowfully irritating mystery. We want to feed on it, but it is only an object we can look on; it appears to us from a certain distance. The…” quote by Simone Weil](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d7d/simone-weil-544_beauty_we-want-to-get-behind-the-beauty-but-it_2295893.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d7d/simone-weil-544_beauty_we-want-to-get-behind-the-beauty-but-it_2295893.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/d7d/simone-weil-544_beauty_we-want-to-get-behind-the-beauty-but-it_2295893.jpg) > ““We want to get behind the beauty, but it is only a surface. It is like a mirror that reflects to us our own desire for good. It is a sphinx, an enigma, a sorrowfully irritating mystery. We want to feed on it, but it is only an object we can look on; it appears to us from a certain distance. The great sorrow of human life is knowing that to look and to eat are two different operations. Only on the other side of heaven, where God lives, are they one and the same operation. Children already experience this sorrow when they look at a cake for a long time and nearly regret eating it, but are powerless to help themselves. Maybe the vices, depravities and crimes are nearly always or even always in their essence attempts to eat beauty, to eat what one can only look at. Eve initiated this. If she lost our humanity by eating a fruit, the reverse attitude— looking at a fruit without eating it— must be what saves.”” [Simone Weil](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/simone-weil/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Human desire for beauty is a longing that cannot be fully satisfied, creating a paradox between admiration and consumption. **In simple terms:** We crave beauty but cannot have it fully. Key Takeaway Accept the tension between desire and restraint. Themes philosophy spirituality desire beauty paradox Mood melancholic reflective Type philosophical poetic When to use this quote - art criticism - spiritual practice - personal reflection - ethical decision making Key Concepts theory of longing ethical restraint Questions to Reflect On - What does it mean to “eat” beauty? - Can restraint lead to deeper appreciation? 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