--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: It's so egotistical to believe that we…" description: "\"“It's so egotistical to believe that we know more about someone else's reality than they do, and such a waste of time.”\" — Shreve Stockton" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5ac/shreve-stockton-72996_ego_it-s-so-egotistical-to-believe-that-we-k_850521.jpg" --- # It's so egotistical to believe that we know more about… ![“It's so egotistical to believe that we know more about someone else's reality than they do, and such a waste of time.” quote by Shreve Stockton](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5ac/shreve-stockton-72996_ego_it-s-so-egotistical-to-believe-that-we-k_850521.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5ac/shreve-stockton-72996_ego_it-s-so-egotistical-to-believe-that-we-k_850521.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/5ac/shreve-stockton-72996_ego_it-s-so-egotistical-to-believe-that-we-k_850521.jpg) > ““It's so egotistical to believe that we know more about someone else's reality than they do, and such a waste of time.”” Shreve Stockton ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Assuming we know others' reality is egotistical and wasteful. **In simple terms:** Thinking we know others' reality is arrogant. Key Takeaway Listen before judging. Themes ego knowledge humility Mood reflective cautious Type philosophical ethical When to use this quote - personal relationships - political debates - clinical therapy - cross‑cultural exchange Key Concepts epistemic humility cognitive bias Questions to Reflect On - How often do you assume you know someone's experience? - What steps can you take to reduce ego? 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