--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: I dread that it may be only a longing for…" description: "\"“I dread that it may be only a longing for annihilation. No person who has seen his own face plain can want to live longer.”\" — Shirley Jackson" image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b31/shirley-jackson-1526_annihilation_i-dread-that-it-may-be-only-a-longing-fo_2972552.jpg" --- # I dread that it may be only a longing for annihilation. No… ![“I dread that it may be only a longing for annihilation. No person who has seen his own face plain can want to live longer.” quote by Shirley Jackson](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b31/shirley-jackson-1526_annihilation_i-dread-that-it-may-be-only-a-longing-fo_2972552.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b31/shirley-jackson-1526_annihilation_i-dread-that-it-may-be-only-a-longing-fo_2972552.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/b31/shirley-jackson-1526_annihilation_i-dread-that-it-may-be-only-a-longing-fo_2972552.jpg) > ““I dread that it may be only a longing for annihilation. No person who has seen his own face plain can want to live longer.”” [Shirley Jackson](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shirley-jackson/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Facing one's own plain self can lead to a desire for annihilation, making life feel unbearable. **In simple terms:** Seeing self plainly can cause despair. Key Takeaway Confront inner truth with compassion. Themes existential self‑perception despair Mood somber introspective Type philosophical cautionary When to use this quote - therapy - self‑help - creative writing Key Concepts philosophy psychology Questions to Reflect On - What coping mechanisms help with self‑acceptance? - How does confronting self affect purpose? 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