--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: You weren't my first love; Yeah so what?…" description: "\"You weren't my first love; Yeah so what? That doesn't mean I wont fall in love with you. You just have to do your part & show me you wont hurt me like ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/871/shay-18183_fall-in-love_you-weren-t-my-first-love-yeah-so-what-t_95588.jpg" --- # You weren't my first love; Yeah so what? That doesn't mean… ![“You weren't my first love; Yeah so what? That doesn't mean I wont fall in love with you. You just have to do your part & show me you wont hurt me like he did. Show me you care. & Show me that you truly love me first. I'm not going to fall for you if you dont plan on catching me. Don't get mad at…” quote by Shay](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/871/shay-18183_fall-in-love_you-weren-t-my-first-love-yeah-so-what-t_95588.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/871/shay-18183_fall-in-love_you-weren-t-my-first-love-yeah-so-what-t_95588.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/871/shay-18183_fall-in-love_you-weren-t-my-first-love-yeah-so-what-t_95588.jpg) > “You weren't my first love; Yeah so what? That doesn't mean I wont fall in love with you. You just have to do your part & show me you wont hurt me like he did. Show me you care. & Show me that you truly love me first. I'm not going to fall for you if you dont plan on catching me. Don't get mad at me if I don't like you as much as you'd like me too. I'm SICK & tired of all those lies i've been told..it's gonna be a little harder for me to trust people now..take things slow with me, I'll fall with time. Just don't play games with my heart; I don't want to get hurt. Why did I fall so easily for the first time? Because I was curious for love, I wanted to know what it was like to be in love. If you love me; you'll understand. & last but not least don't break me.” [Shay](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shay/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. A plea for genuine, patient love after past hurt, demanding reassurance and honesty before allowing vulnerability. **In simple terms:** Seeking trust and care after betrayal. Key Takeaway Love requires proof and patience. Themes trust vulnerability recovery communication boundaries Mood hopeful cautious yearning Type personal confession advice When to use this quote - new romantic relationship - post‑breakup dating - confiding in a partner Key Concepts emotional safety past trauma relationship expectations Practical Applications - relationship counseling - personal boundaries setting Questions to Reflect On - What actions demonstrate trustworthiness? - How can one balance openness with self‑protection? ★ ★ ★ ★ ★ No ratings yet [Fall in love](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/fall-in-love/) [First love](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/first-love/) [Love](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/love/) [New relationship](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/new-relationship/) [Time](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/about/time/) ## Related quotes > [The first thing they told me in this treatment house was: Welcome home Justin. 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