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title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: Surely there comes a moment in every…"
description: "\"“Surely there comes a moment in every human's life when he or she says, like the Sibyl - I wish to die.”\" — Shashi Deshpande"
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#  Surely there comes a moment in every human's life when he…

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> ““Surely there comes a moment in every human's life when he or she says, like the Sibyl - I wish to die.””

[Shashi Deshpande](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/shashi-deshpande/)

## About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A reflection on existential longing for death, likened to the ancient Sibyl’s wish.

**In simple terms:** Contemplating death.

Key Takeaway

Acknowledge mortality.

Themes

existence despair philosophy

Mood

somber introspective

Type

philosophical literary

When to use this quote

- grief counseling
- artistic expression
- spiritual practice

Key Concepts

nihilism existentialism

Questions to Reflect On

- What gives life meaning?
- How to cope with such thoughts?

A Different Perspective

May romanticize death.

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