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title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: If you ever feel sorry for somebody on a…"
description: "\"If you ever feel sorry for somebody on a golf course, you better go home. If you don't kill them, they'll kill you.\" — Seve Ballesteros"
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#  If you ever feel sorry for somebody on a golf course, you…

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> “If you ever feel sorry for somebody on a golf course, you better go home. If you don't kill them, they'll kill you.”

[Seve Ballesteros](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/seve-ballesteros/)

## About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Compassion on the golf course can be dangerous; the sport demands competitive aggression.

**In simple terms:** Being too kind on the course can be risky.

Key Takeaway

Balance kindness with competitiveness.

Themes

sports competition ethics

Mood

intense serious

Type

motivational philosophical

When to use this quote

- tournament play
- team events
- training

Key Concepts

aggression sportsmanship survival

Questions to Reflect On

- When should you be compassionate?
- How to stay competitive yet fair?

A Different Perspective

Overemphasis on aggression can harm sportsmanship.

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