--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: You should talk to him, though. Make him…" description: "\"“You should talk to him, though. Make him stew over it, of course, but... hear him out.' She didn't look at me as she spoke. 'Rhys always has his reaso..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/e75/sarah-j-maas-58_a-court-of-mist-and_you-should-talk-to-him-though-make-him-s_1203185.jpg" --- # You should talk to him, though. Make him stew over it, of… ![“You should talk to him, though. Make him stew over it, of course, but... hear him out.' She didn't look at me as she spoke. 'Rhys always has his reasons, and he might be arrogant as hell, but he's usually right about his instincts. He makes mistakes, but... You should hear him out.' I'd already…” quote by Sarah J. Maas](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/e75/sarah-j-maas-58_a-court-of-mist-and_you-should-talk-to-him-though-make-him-s_1203185.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/e75/sarah-j-maas-58_a-court-of-mist-and_you-should-talk-to-him-though-make-him-s_1203185.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/e75/sarah-j-maas-58_a-court-of-mist-and_you-should-talk-to-him-though-make-him-s_1203185.jpg) > ““You should talk to him, though. Make him stew over it, of course, but... hear him out.' She didn't look at me as she spoke. 'Rhys always has his reasons, and he might be arrogant as hell, but he's usually right about his instincts. He makes mistakes, but... You should hear him out.' I'd already decided that I would.”” [Sarah J. Maas](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/sarah-j-maas/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Listening to others, even difficult ones, can reveal hidden truths and guide decisions. **In simple terms:** Hear others, even if they’re hard. Key Takeaway Consider their perspective before acting. Themes communication trust intuition Mood thoughtful cautious Type advice reflective When to use this quote - conflict resolution - team decisions - personal relationships Key Concepts empathy strategic listening Questions to Reflect On - What assumptions do you hold about this person? - How might listening change your plan? 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