--- title: "Meaning & Key Takeaway of: We're queer, but music doesn't have a…" description: "\"“We're queer, but music doesn't have a sexuality. Even if it was more clearly written to women, I still think that music is still just music.”\" — Sara ..." image: "https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/fd5/sara-quin-7966_lesbian_we-re-queer-but-music-doesn-t-have-a-sex_264810.jpg" --- # We're queer, but music doesn't have a sexuality. Even if… ![“We're queer, but music doesn't have a sexuality. Even if it was more clearly written to women, I still think that music is still just music.” quote by Sara Quin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/fd5/sara-quin-7966_lesbian_we-re-queer-but-music-doesn-t-have-a-sex_264810.jpg) [Download](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/fd5/sara-quin-7966_lesbian_we-re-queer-but-music-doesn-t-have-a-sex_264810.jpg) [Open image](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/i/fd5/sara-quin-7966_lesbian_we-re-queer-but-music-doesn-t-have-a-sex_264810.jpg) > ““We're queer, but music doesn't have a sexuality. Even if it was more clearly written to women, I still think that music is still just music.”” [Sara Quin](https://sms4smile.com/quotes/author/sara-quin/) ## About This Quote This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation. Music transcends gender; its value lies in sound, not the identity of its creator. **In simple terms:** Music is gender‑neutral. Key Takeaway Appreciate music without bias. 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